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The Impact of Childhood Trauma Across the Lifespan

  • Writer: Stacy Hankey
    Stacy Hankey
  • Jul 3
  • 2 min read

Understanding Effects Across the Lifespan—and How to Heal


💔 What Is Childhood Trauma?


Childhood trauma refers to distressing experiences during early life that overwhelm a child’s ability to cope, such as:

  • Abuse (physical, emotional, or sexual)

  • Neglect

  • Domestic violence

  • Loss of a caregiver due to death, incarceration, divorce etc.

  • Substance use in the home

  • Having a parent with mental health struggles

  • Poverty or instability

  • Bullying or discrimination


These events shape the developing brain and body—sometimes long after the event is over.


🧠 Lifelong Effects of Childhood Trauma

Trauma in childhood doesn’t just "go away." It can affect how someone thinks, feels, behaves, and relates across their lifespan:


👶 In Childhood:

  • Behavioral outbursts or withdrawal

  • Difficulty focusing in school

  • Anxiety, nightmares, or sleep problems

  • Trouble trusting others


🧑‍🎓 In Adolescence:

  • Risk-taking behavior

  • Substance use

  • Self-harm or suicidal thoughts

  • Difficulty forming healthy relationships


🧑‍🧑‍🧒 In Adulthood:

  • Anxiety, depression, PTSD

  • Chronic illness (heart disease, autoimmune issues)

  • Trouble with boundaries or self-esteem

  • Relationship or parenting challenges


🛠️ What Can We Do to Help?

The good news: Healing is absolutely possible. With the right support, the brain and body can rewire, recover, and rebuild.


1. Early Intervention

  • Therapy for kids and families

  • Trauma-informed schools and services

  • Support for caregivers and teachers


2. Therapeutic Support

  • Play therapy, EMDR, CBT, or expressive therapies

  • Safe, trusting relationships with consistent adults

  • Creating routines and safety


3. Build Resilience

  • Help children name their feelings

  • Encourage coping skills (breathing, journaling, movement)

  • Support identity, empowerment, and strengths


4. Break the Cycle

  • Adults can heal too! Therapy can address childhood wounds

  • Learn new patterns and parenting styles

  • Practice self-compassion and healthy boundaries


❤️ Final Message

Childhood trauma may change someone’s story—but it doesn’t have to define it. With compassion, support, and healing relationships, we can help individuals thrive at any age. Call today to set up an appointment with a licensed therapist (860) 483-0360.

 

 
 
 

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