The Impact of Childhood Trauma Across the Lifespan
- Stacy Hankey
- Jul 3
- 2 min read
Understanding Effects Across the Lifespan—and How to Heal
💔 What Is Childhood Trauma?
Childhood trauma refers to distressing experiences during early life that overwhelm a child’s ability to cope, such as:
Abuse (physical, emotional, or sexual)
Neglect
Domestic violence
Loss of a caregiver due to death, incarceration, divorce etc.
Substance use in the home
Having a parent with mental health struggles
Poverty or instability
Bullying or discrimination
These events shape the developing brain and body—sometimes long after the event is over.
🧠 Lifelong Effects of Childhood Trauma
Trauma in childhood doesn’t just "go away." It can affect how someone thinks, feels, behaves, and relates across their lifespan:
👶 In Childhood:
Behavioral outbursts or withdrawal
Difficulty focusing in school
Anxiety, nightmares, or sleep problems
Trouble trusting others
🧑🎓 In Adolescence:
Risk-taking behavior
Substance use
Self-harm or suicidal thoughts
Difficulty forming healthy relationships
🧑🧑🧒 In Adulthood:
Anxiety, depression, PTSD
Chronic illness (heart disease, autoimmune issues)
Trouble with boundaries or self-esteem
Relationship or parenting challenges
🛠️ What Can We Do to Help?
The good news: Healing is absolutely possible. With the right support, the brain and body can rewire, recover, and rebuild.
1. Early Intervention
Therapy for kids and families
Trauma-informed schools and services
Support for caregivers and teachers
2. Therapeutic Support
Play therapy, EMDR, CBT, or expressive therapies
Safe, trusting relationships with consistent adults
Creating routines and safety
3. Build Resilience
Help children name their feelings
Encourage coping skills (breathing, journaling, movement)
Support identity, empowerment, and strengths
4. Break the Cycle
Adults can heal too! Therapy can address childhood wounds
Learn new patterns and parenting styles
Practice self-compassion and healthy boundaries
❤️ Final Message
Childhood trauma may change someone’s story—but it doesn’t have to define it. With compassion, support, and healing relationships, we can help individuals thrive at any age. Call today to set up an appointment with a licensed therapist (860) 483-0360.




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